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Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Honey? by BigShishi(m): three:18pm On May 26, 2006

I've always wondered why this is so, my longest and best relationship lasted 3 years and thou my shorty was in love with me, i forced myself not to fall in dear with her. I hate that feeling when you can't practice without another person and all other emotinal turmoil and psycological torture that comes with falling in dearest. I call up we dudes were not made that way which is why nosotros feel more comforable existence players crusade we weaker than women emotionally and don't like/know how to handle emotions, What y'all be thinking tour this? 4 Likes i Share

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Love? by glodave(f): three:56pm On May 26, 2006

hmmmmmmmmmm

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Dear? by Rhodalyn(f): iii:56pm On May 26, 2006

cuz they dont desire their ''ego'' to be hurt i Like

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Honey? by BigShishi(m): 4:09pm On May 26, 2006

guess u rite rhoda, girls tin make u get crazy, i hate serious relationships cos it e'er brings out the worst in me!!

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Beloved? by Rhodalyn(f): iv:11pm On May 26, 2006

it brings out the big billy goat in Large shishi

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Love? by thelma2(f): four:12pm On May 26, 2006

that's cos guys av a problem with faithfullness. they know they can't be true to 1 girl and so they shy away from dear. the faithful ones are very difficult to detect, like ane in a million, but i thank God I plant the 1 out of the agglomeration that'south why am so happy 1 Like

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Dear? by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:52pm On May 26, 2006

because hhm i think the guys would be in better position to reply this question

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Fall In Love? by diddy4(m): 5:55pm On May 26, 2006

to be honest girls are strong to autumn in and out of love. subsequently my first human relationship which was a ticking time bomb waiting to expload. i have never had the heart to fall in love again. the pain is too much when things dont work out. i did rather stay single than experience such hurting. damn it hurts like hell. boys are so afraid of falling in dear cuzz we are the ones dat detect information technology really hard to move on. atleast for a while nosotros will be lamenting the "had i known" oral communication. nosotros are men simply our heart is feminine. there might exist guys out there who are so potent dat they can fall in and out of dear but my heart is too light. i Like

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Love? by babwilms(m): eleven:13pm On May 26, 2006

I don't know why. I'm guilty of this also. I see it as a commitment and i merely tin't commit myself emotionally to anyone right now, too costly for me if the lady don't feel the same likewise. But i honestly want to commit myself to someone. HELP NEEDED

Re: Why Are Men E'er Agape To Autumn In Love? by ToyM28(f): 11:33pm On May 26, 2006

awwwwwwww. all d guyz here seem ii exist either scared or heart broken, iv sum reason it gives me hope dat we galz re not the ane exagerating our pain. @ big shisi, i might be wrong, but i remember d only reason u guyz re afraid of commitment is 'cuz' u guyz see delivery as a rope tying u downwardly. This rope wld prevent u from veing fun nd doing the things u honey d near, seeing equally it wld mean u re answering to ur galfrnd. @ Diddy, poor u. Hope u realize all galz aint like dat. M certain if u try me i wld be diferent (just jokng). But cheer upward, things cld be worse. Nd anytime u'll ve 2 fall in love once again sn.

Re: Why Are Men Always Agape To Fall In Love? by baby4u2(f): 11:43pm On May 26, 2006

how many guys think there improve off as players please? or are u saying desire to be players?

Re: Why Are Men E'er Agape To Fall In Beloved? past BigShishi(m): 11:46pm On May 26, 2006

wuz upToy, it's not just cos i recollect i'll exist tied down (i know i have ii settle down some solar day anyway) simply it's stuff similar treatment when another guy starts showing interest with someone you are in love with, or she thinks you are becoming overposessive e.g. cos u don't want her hanging out with a particular guy, or you accept an argument and she says she needs her space e.t.c. It's stuff like that i tin can't handle. I rember when i was 16 and used to hide under my duvet and listen to music and ger moody just cos mt gurl and i were not talking, equally a human i can't be dealing with that kinda SH^T??!!

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Love? by BigShishi(m): eleven:49pm On May 26, 2006

BABY4u2, I ain't going to lie, being a playa has its drawbacks but it offers the best type of condolement and safety zone, because u don't get center-broken or hurt only then in the long run, you lot'll notice it hard ii trust and love a daughter(i'm finding that out myself), u own't willing to let get because u don't want to be at da mercy of a daughter!!, falling in love means u ain't in control maaan!!!

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Autumn In Beloved? by diddy4(thousand): xi:50pm On May 26, 2006

i feel u man. that shiit aint fair at all. its but crazy.

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Beloved? past BigShishi(m): 11:55pm On May 26, 2006

Information technology'south harder for a guy 2 move on, i did some things to convince myself i was over my serious yard/friend of 3 years, (even tho i sent her some hate mails and messages on her phone ).I saw her at a fast food articulation with her new man and damn!!! i felt like puching both their faces in (but mutha***a was huge and didn't take my boys with me ). She called me and told me i had a wonderful wifey but i didn't know how to take care of her, and what makes it worse is that some people also tell me i lost a precious stone of a girl, making me feel similar a loser or like she never did nothing wrong when we kicked it??!!

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Love? past baby4u2(f): 11:57pm On May 26, 2006

@bigshishi if ur a histrion (am guessing ur not amen) would u like it if ur getting played too? men are scared to become emotional thats truthful but being a player doesnt solve anything, an advice many men/boys are even so to larn.

Re: Why Are Men Always Agape To Fall In Dearest? by ToyM28(f): eleven:59pm On May 26, 2006

@ Big, do u realise dat control is subjective. what u cld term out of control (e.g non beingness able two handle ur galz desirablity to other men), cld exist classified by some as a uncomplicated solution? Only as for the crying nether d duvet affair, its a risk one has two take in life every time if they want 2 feel love and to love.  Even men lamentable 2 say still do dat, not considering they are sisi's but cuz dey took a risk. Nd dats wat all guyz shld do. Love, who knows one twenty-four hours ur dearest might be return in more folds dan expected.

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Fall In Love? by diddy4(m): 12:06am On May 27, 2006

nah, dat aint for me. ane heartbreak is enough. two will be suicidal. i did rather stay unmarried and take my time very well earlier i fall again.

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Love? by Ashiwaju(m): ane:12am On May 27, 2006

I know every sensible and reasonable GUY should be agape of falling in love if and just if they have seen how stupidly they accept invested in a relationship and how sadly the whole affair ended and for as long as the lady meets a new man to provide all these luxuries for her, they dont care where it comes from!. Like i have said in many Romance Threads, i dont have any heart for whatsoever one to break any more than, i take cleaved heart and they have broken mine. I am sick and tired of putting into a relationship, trying hard to make it work for one yeye aristo to snatch her away just similar that haba. My advice to all guys , please and delight discover yah self, make the best out of life without ladies and i bet they would run at yous when they run into what stuffs you are fabricated of, they are like flies y'all know? I mean some of them b4 u ladies crusify me and i beta exist the aristo than to be the I trust my self and my self trust me, one time beaten 1million times strong and non shy oo. 2 Likes

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Autumn In Honey? by fabulousG: four:37am On May 27, 2006

its not dat guys dnt fall in love. its simply wat has bben set in gild. Men are suppose to be the specie that are potent and Feelings is considered a weakness. they might dear y'all but they would never acknowledge (wait if they know they volition lose the girl) because they dnt want to exist considered weak. that is y some people think gays are weak considering they show their emotions. which is also the same matter they think of women. Merely what they dnt know is that Love Gives you strength. Have yous seen a adult female protecting her human?? she would do anythin. i Like

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Autumn In Love? past BigShishi(g): ten:21am On May 27, 2006

okay, for example with my ex-daughter, at that place were times she didn't have her school fees or house hire and i would risk missing payments or paying bills to come tru 4 her then only that she tin can exist alright. I fifty-fifty helped her once when we didn't talk for a calendar week and she came to me crying her optics out and begging to God that she'll pay me back and I was the only one that could aid her. My caput told me NO! but my stupid heart went ahead and i gave her, two months after she had another male child, that ain't evn bad, the fact that I had introduced her to almost every one of my family made me look like a bigger fool!! . I was existent biting bout it for a while but i was still human being enough, she called me and i forgave her but the memories still seize with teeth me every at present so. I thought being a playa would he;lp but when i was all information technology did was make me hurt more girls and sometimes u commencement to really like this particular girl only you lot have to force yourself not to and the truth is when y'all are a playa , u are never really, truly happy, there ain't no honey, let's face it existence a playa is just bout sex!!

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Dear? by Nobody: 2:31pm On May 27, 2006

human being you lot practice non have to terminate loving cos as its said what goes around comes around, who knows someday y'all could exist PLAYED IF U REVERT TO BEING A PLAYER U ARE ACTUALLY ACKNOWLEDING UR WEAKNESS AS A Homo BEING WITH THE ABILITY TO Honey

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Autumn In Love? by murphite(grand): ii:36pm On May 27, 2006

mennnn, information technology is very hard to autumn in beloved not to talk of falling out of beloved.this is and so bcous girls are piece of cake to get when their are out of relation but the jelted guy tin accept his unabridged life fourth dimension to get another chichi. And so the primary reason why men alway sfraid to fall in dearest is simply because nosotros are very wick in emotion to the extent that we dont desire to experience jelted or face rejection.

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Fall In Love? by silans(m): 2:42pm On May 27, 2006

[b][/b] Hmmmmmmmm am short of words, but all i tin say is this; i think they don't wanna be hurt the 2nd time, because well-nigh ladies better still girls, are too money demanding, and full with feign love,

Re: Why Are Men Ever Agape To Fall In Honey? by silans(m): 2:50pm On May 27, 2006

Because men are like precious gold very difficult to get so they dont want to be hurt ever merely girls are like pure water very easy to get because of their ,

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Love? past ToyM28(f): 2:57pm On May 27, 2006

silans: Because men are like precious gold very hard to get and so they don't want to be hurt always but girls are like pure water very easy to go because of their , ohhhhhhhhh. cant believe u just sed dat. Even if it was a joke 2 encounter how ladies wld react, u re still way out of line. Not only are u disresspecting women, ladies nd girlz, u re also making ur male counterparts look heartless, stupid, irresponsible and naive. This is because u re somewhat represinting the ideas that men have. If i was a guy nd heared u say that i'll totaly flip nd can ur arse into a condensed can. But thinking u must never had, had a galfrnd with the mode u but spoke.

Re: Why Are Men Ever Afraid To Fall In Beloved? by IAH(f): 2:58pm On May 27, 2006

Because they are agape of rejection. Uncomplicated and brusque! one Similar

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Fall In Love? by otokx(g): 3:10pm On May 27, 2006

IAH striking the caput on the blast.

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Beloved? by silans(m): 3:30pm On May 27, 2006

he, he, toym28, but why are most ladies into feign dearest exercise? coz that moivate me to reply wrongly,

Re: Why Are Men E'er Afraid To Autumn In Love? by ToyM28(f): iii:35pm On May 27, 2006

Dont think we do (well the responsible half of us, sha). But iv dose who do, i think its either misunderstood emotions dey feel (for example later comming out of a relationship, nd starting another 1 signals cld be mixed). Or dey only desire to give a guy wat he wants 2 hear (which i must say, near guy lately in dis age merely love hearing dat discussion)!

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Fall In Beloved? past pascal(m): 8:31pm On May 27, 2006

IAH: Because they are agape of rejection. Uncomplicated and brusque! the truth of the affair is that men are weaker compare to reverse sex

Re: Why Are Men Always Afraid To Autumn In Love? by dakmanzero(m): nine:08am On May 28, 2006

Well, I remember information technology has to do with the level of self-command required. A daughter in love tends to experience happy and safe with her human being. Yet any guy, fifty-fifty in love, has to fight against his beast instinct to pounce on the adjacent girl he sees *every day* It is very difficult, so when a relationship is over, it comes with a profound sense of regret and a feeling of having been a sucker (mugu). Similarly, it is hard to choose. Believe it or not, women, it is possible for a man to dear more than than one woman. Choosing to stick with one means giving up all the others- and guys are afraid of making a mistake. Too there is the trend of a girl to transform once she has 'caught' a guy. Sometimes it is and so fast it makes your caput spin. Then it is guilt and conscience that causes y'all to remain with her. when y'all finally leave, in that location are simply bad feelings and, yep, regret. All these point to one matter: it is hard for guys to tummy a closed human relationship, especially one in which they were emotionally invested, and it is difficult to repeat something y'all regret having done before. Finally, a person in love, male OR female is a very weak and vulnerable beast. This seems to be ok for women, merely our crazy lodge expects men to be PILLARS OF Forcefulness AND FORTITUDE, which is at odds with this. Sometimes the adult female herself may despise the homo for being such a pathetic weakling and lose respect for him. Men are terrified of this (being percieved as weak) 1 Like

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